Indian Youth See Elders as Wise but Lonely, Dependent
In a revealing insight into intergenerational relationships across urban India, a recent study finds that while the youth admire elders as wise and respected, many also perceive them as lonely and dependent. This nuanced perspective highlights a blend of empathy and prevailing stereotypes among younger Indians.
Most Elders Feel Valued Yet Emotionally Isolated
The extensive survey conducted across ten cities, including Delhi, Mumbai, Kolkata, Chennai, Kanpur, Nagpur, and Madurai, points out that 86% of elders feel valued. However, beneath this feeling of appreciation lies a palpable emotional distance; many seniors report feeling unheard, excluded, and disconnected from meaningful engagement with younger generations.
Understanding Intergenerational Dynamics: The INBO Report
Published ahead of World Elder Abuse Awareness Day on June 15, the India Intergenerational Bonds (INBO) Report explores the emotional, relational, and psychological facets of ageing and youth relations in urban India. Surveying 5,798 respondents, with 70% aged 18-30 and 30% aged 60 and above, it uses a blend of quantitative data and qualitative focus group discussions to deepen insights.
Bridging the Perception-Practice Gap
The report finds a significant perception-practice gap, reflected in sentiments like “We are told the plan, not asked.” This suggests that while respect for elders remains ingrained culturally, many elders desire more active inclusion in decision-making and social life.
Youth Ready to Build Bridges
Interestingly, many young people express willingness to support elders by volunteering, assisting with errands, and promoting digital inclusion. There is also a call for educational institutions to foster awareness about ageing and create more intergenerational activities, reinforcing bonds between generations.
Demographic Context and Future Implications
- Currently, 12% of India’s population is aged 60 or above, expected to surge to 19% by 2050.
- India has the world's largest youth population, with over 365 million individuals aged 15 to 29.
- Among youth, perceptions are mixed: 56% see elders as lonely, 48% view them as dependent, while 51% regard them as wise and 43% as respected.
The Complex Reality of Ageing in India
Elders often express a desire to spend more time with youth and feel uplifted after such interactions, highlighting the dual nature of ageing as both a time of cherished respect and potential isolation. Strengthening positive perceptions and addressing emotional and social gaps will be key to nurturing healthier intergenerational relationships.
Looking Forward: Towards Shared Purpose Across Generations
As India grapples with demographic shifts, fostering intentional collaboration across generations in caregiving, digital literacy, lifelong learning, and volunteering could transform ageing from a phase of isolation into one of shared vision and co-creation.
